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Tuesday, January 1, 2019

"New Year, New Me..."

It's always nice to think that we can just change at the drop of a ball.

But let's be real. That's not true.

A more realistic way of seeing this, however, is allowing yourself to set baby step goals.

Instead of saying, "I'm going to drop 80 lbs this year", which for some is totally possible, it might be really overwhelming right from the start, right? 
Maybe starting at, "I'm going to sign up with a gym and start going twice a week" is a good place to start. It's productive, and reasonable.

But then again, who am I to say what is reasonable and what isn't?

I have personally felt like those big goals have been overwhelming for me. So if this is speaking to you, maybe you will want to keep reading this.

As far as goals go, I want to begin posting on here regularly about once a month. That's fair right?

On New Years Eve, we wrote down things that we want to leave behind in 2018 and burned them in a bowl. This made me think, "hey, maybe I should start there. Set my goals to be things to not do instead of give myself things to do." I already feel prepared to face the new year.

I should be clear. I find any goal setting to be great no matter what time of the year it is. Don't believe for a second that I find new year resolutions to be silly. I think they're great, but sometimes unattainable or, like I said before, overwhelming.

So, if you are still here after all of that ranting. What do you think? Do you have a baby step goal for yourself? Or something you want to leave behind in the previous year? Do you have a different goal setting method that works well for you?

Happy New Year!
I hope all of your goals and wishes come to life.

Saturday, November 10, 2018

Literary Necklaces

Hello lovelies!

I am here to bring you some updates to my shop. 

A little while ago I added some new necklaces to my shop. This is a style I am toying with as I have a secret (not so secret now) obsession with paper crafts. I began to collage different things and when I was given some frame pendants as a gift I came up with this idea.

I am a literature NERD. I studied it in undergrad and I have an old lady goal of going back to uni one day to get another masters or phd in literature. I am also a proud feminist and thought it would be wonderful to represent some of my favorite literary ladies who broke the norm in my creations.

These are all one of a kind and will not be reproduced again! With the holidays in mind this might make the perfect gift for another literary geek!

"There is no Frigate like a Book  
To take us Lands away,  
Nor any Coursers like a Page  
Of prancing Poetry –   
This Traverse may the poorest take         
Without oppress of Toll –   
How frugal is the Chariot  
That bears a Human soul."
-- Emily Dickinson

Saturday, September 1, 2018

Katabasis of Persephone | My First Magazine Publication


Hello darlings,

For those who have been following me on other platforms, you will have known by now (because my mouth won't stop moving, nor my fingers) that Cat Trzaskowski and I got into Gothesque Magazine from our collaboration we did in April.

It's funny. Before the shoot we shared a live video talking about our plans for the shoot and hinting at the theme. We planned to reveal it only a month after shooting. It wound up being a much bigger reveal when not only the theme was shared, but the fact that it made it into Gothesque's Gods and Myths issue!

I am so excited for Cat and for myself because this is something I never thought would really ever happen. I don't go the extra mile that a lot of other models and artists do. I am just happy playing dress up and pretend with my friends and other people who like the creative process. Never did I dream to be in a published magazine! Maybe I dreamed it, but I thought it would always remain a dream. Yet, here we are.

I want to thank all of our loyal followers and friends who support the work Cat and I do together. When we work together, not only is it a wonderful creative outlet, but it's an empowering experience. Between this shoot, and Lady of the Lake, By the Sword, and many others Cat and I have done together, it's all about empowering older stories, and divulge hidden aspects. We love breaking the damsel in distress trope that females, especially young ones, are so used to seeing now. It's truly a wonderful thing to be a part of, especially being a literature and mythology nerd. 

I am still awestruck by this whole thing. Firstly, by Cat's amazing talent, and then all of this. I am doing my best to save my squealing for when I see her to celebrate. For now it is very much internal squealing.

To see more of this shoot, visit Cat's Facebook or her Website. I won't be sharing it until all of my Patrons on Patreon see it first!

Anyway, thank you for stopping by.

I'll see you next time.



Friday, August 10, 2018

A Romantic Endeavor

I'm trying something new.

I have always romanticized the idea of being a botanist, a floral designer, or anything working along plants, especially ones that smell delicious. 

I figure the closest I can get is making perfume! 

Being a Perfumist sounds quite romantic, doesn't it? I do not expect this to really be a big deal within my shop, but it has been something I have been eager to try since I started making candles. Originally, I wanted to make perfumes to match the candle scents I was making, but I have no real gauge to determine if that would be wise. Also, my candle scents are always changing or I'm making new blends so that would be messy anyway.

As for now, I have three scents available:
  1. Earl Grey Tea, scented with Bergamot and Orange Peel Essential oils.
  2. Patchouli, which is just pure hippie musk, 100% Patchouli Essential Oil.
  3. Summer Garden, scented with Lavender, Rose, Lemon, Basil, and Rosemary Essential Oil.

I was most excited with Summer Garden, being that as I was learning about what scents are okay and not okay to mix, this one apparently breaks those rules. However, if you love the smell of a garden on a breezy summer day, this scent mimics just that. It's a smell I have been exposed to a lot this summer since my partner began his farming business and my mother has been tending to her flower gardens. Everything is in full bloom by the beginning of July! I think it's a much more accurate smell of summer for those of us who do not live near a beach.

Each bottle is a 8mL dark amber roll-on glass bottle. I chose these specifically because they are a good size, and the perfume and scent lasts a long time in this particular bottle.

I'm very excited to give this new hobby a try (not that I'm looking for new hobbies, I guess I just like being busy). If this sounds at all interesting, there are links above to each scent on Etsy!

Thank you again for stopping by!

Ghost Siren

Friday, July 27, 2018

Something Sweet | A Shop Update

Something a little sweeter.

I love looking through those Victorian Trading co. Catalogs. They make me think of many things, one being how elegant crazy cat ladies where back then. But in all seriousness, I love the light colors with the lace. It makes my feminine side come out to dance around, giggle, and play.

So when I started playing with lighter colors, I got to tickle that part of me and hope it tickles someone else's fancy.

Roses, lace, and pearls...

Any modern victorian's dream!

Modeling is the lovely Natascha (@saddergoblins on Instagram ).

All items here are currently available in my shop.

Thank you for visiting, see you next week.